tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8860030524386729044.post7240240666270498608..comments2017-05-08T03:45:17.893-07:00Comments on Katie The Dude Bro : How to Approach a Woman: And Not be Compared to Ted Bundy...Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10835156313573020043noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8860030524386729044.post-69596350657611638122013-12-03T21:14:23.044-08:002013-12-03T21:14:23.044-08:00Welllll here's the deal. The days of friends m...Welllll here's the deal. The days of friends matchmaking, going to singles mixers etc are over; especially if you're in your mid 20s early 30s. If that's your scene go for it! Thing is you want to find people with similar interests as you so if ya meet a dude in a bar...you both like bars. Cool. Again it was specific to meeting women at bars and 100% of the women I spoke with, which was a lot, all said these things. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10835156313573020043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8860030524386729044.post-6094901315528762492013-12-03T21:10:41.823-08:002013-12-03T21:10:41.823-08:00Everyone meets people differently. I don't thi...Everyone meets people differently. I don't think meeting in a bar is the best way; but about 80% of my married friends have met their husbands at bars. This also is specific to the "social scene" aka bars...where there's alcohol. Thanks for reading :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10835156313573020043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8860030524386729044.post-47350848353433159982013-12-03T16:02:57.274-08:002013-12-03T16:02:57.274-08:00Stumbled upon this blog just wanted to give some f...Stumbled upon this blog just wanted to give some feedback on this. All pretty accurate, but I think the main point you are missing is that meeting people at a bar is literally the worst place to start a real relationship. It is awkward for both people and to be honest you are only going to "meet" the guys who are good at bull-shiting, being smooth in a loud bar setting shouldn't be the initial test for a guy to get your attention, it is not a good judge of character. Go to friends' parties, get introduced, join social organizations in the community, be active. Going to a bar and waiting to get hit on should be low on the priority list.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8860030524386729044.post-27817015493784472882013-12-03T06:55:41.140-08:002013-12-03T06:55:41.140-08:00Love the list - but I have to disagree on number 3...Love the list - but I have to disagree on number 3. In my experience the best candidates for real dating are the women who aren't at the bar to pick up men. If they're truly having fun with their girlfriends you can see it in their smile and in the way they communicate with the friend / friends they're with.<br /><br />I that walking up to a women who has friends with her and making it clear that you're interested (in a non-creepy way) is a huge form of flattery. The caveat here, of course, is that for most men it takes quite a bit of liquid courage to walk up to a group of pretty women. So - if you're working on liquid courage you're much more likely to come across as annoying. It's a delicate balance.<br /><br />Thanks for writing :)James Ewinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14312792406748429123noreply@blogger.com